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There’s a quiet kind of power in a Monday morning.A softness. A reset. A return, not to urgency, but to intention.To the vision that started it all. This morning, like many others, I returned to a quiet ritual, reflecting on the energy I bring into my work as a planner, artist, and storyteller. Before I […]

The Beauty of Beginning Again

Sep 29, 2025

This week, I celebrated my 45th birthday, and like many milestones, it gave me a chance to pause and reflect. Over the years, both in life and in business, I’ve learned that the most meaningful moments are not just about achievements, but about the lessons and values that shape who we become. As a wedding […]

Fabulous Friday Reflections: 5 Lessons I’ve Learned on My Journey

Sep 26, 2025

Brides often spend endless hours curating flowers, linens, and color palettes—only to discover on the wedding day that something still feels… off. Guests admire the décor, yes, but what they remember isn’t just the flowers on the table. It’s how the day moved, how it felt to be part of your celebration. The truth is, […]

Beyond Decor: Designing Flow That Guests Remember

Sep 24, 2025

The wedding planning and design journey is filled with details, decisions, and countless moving pieces. The truth is, even the most beautiful plans and designs can unravel without clear, consistent communication with your planner. In luxury weddings, beauty is expected, but true ease and presence come from the conversations that keep everything aligned. I don’t […]

Seamless Weddings Begin With Communication

Sep 19, 2025

Happy Wedding Wednesday! Over the past few months, as I’ve been meeting with clients and prospective couples, one of the main topics I return to again and again is guest experience. Why? Because I truly believe it is the heartbeat of a remarkable wedding. When you’re in the midst of planning, it’s easy to get […]

Happy Wedding Wednesday: Begin With the Feeling

Sep 17, 2025

For me, Mondays are about connection, a chance for you to see who I am beyond weddings and events. As much as I live and breathe weddings and events, my creativity is nurtured in the spaces outside of my work. Inspiration doesn’t come from sitting still, it comes from the world around me. Travel Travel […]

Monday’s with Marshecka: What Inspires Me Outside Weddings

Sep 15, 2025

Sometimes you just have to pause and reflect on the journey. Today is one of those days for me. I’ve had the honor of planning so many weddings, and each one continues to remind me why I do what I do. It’s never just about the logistics, the checklists, contracts, and timelines. Those are important, […]

Honoring the Journey: A Grateful Reflection

Sep 12, 2025

When couples begin planning their wedding, so much of the focus naturally falls on the details, the flowers, the linens, the music, the menu. Those details matter, of course. They create the atmosphere that makes the day beautiful. But there’s one moment that transcends them all: the ceremony. The ceremony is the sacred pause, the […]

Why the Ceremony Moment Matters Most

Sep 10, 2025

Mornings are sacred to me. They set the tone for everything that follows, not just in business, but in life. Over the years, I’ve learned that how I begin my day shapes how I show up for my clients, my family, and myself. One of the voices that inspired this practice is Robin Sharma, who […]

A Morning with Marshecka

Sep 8, 2025

There is a common misconception in weddings: that planning can be pieced together and someone can simply step in at the last moment to coordinate the day. For refined celebrations, this couldn’t be further from the truth. Photo Credit: John Decker Photography At Marshecka Weddings and Events, we believe your wedding deserves more than management. […]

The Value of True Partnership in Wedding Planning

Luxury wedding ceremony beneath towering redwood trees with guests seated and wedding party gathered, creating an elegant and timeless atmosphere.

Sep 6, 2025

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